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CONSIDERED A BORING SALSA DANCER
I don't know if you noticed, but hardcore Salseros usually don't just go home after
a night of Salsa dancing. They usually go hang out until the next sunrise comes up!
So you are all eating, and laughing and enjoying each other's company and out of the blue,
one of your favorite dance partners forgets that you were there and mentions that he/she loves
dancing with so and so, and that person is not you.
Does anyone realized that a Salsero has his/her feelings involved on how well you make
the other person feel when you dance with him/her? And with that statement, do you realize
how disheartening that is?
One can only think what a Salsero is going through right there. They are probably thinking:
"Give me death, nothing else but DEATH!"
So you just found out that the person who you love dancing with doesn't really get his/her fix
with you. You get yours with him/her, but he/she can't with you. That my friends, is not give
that person an excuse to actually say that in public. To a Salsero, that is a very insulting
remark, very rude and very cold. It's like saying that you prefer making love to someone else,
that's how a Salsero would take it. OK, so he/she'd rather dance with someone else. Don't
feed me reality. I can't take it. Keep me in a dream. Let me have my dream, and don't ruin it!
Look, it's very simple. It might be the truth, but you have to take into consideration the
other person's feelings. My advice to you, is to keep that info to yourself. Don't be mentioning
who can you get your fix with, and who can you NOT. You know what this does
to everyone else you dance with? It makes them feel bad with a capital B. It makes them feel
lika a Good-for-nothing less than human beings that have no purpose or meaning in life. It's
like telling one of your closest friends about your "best friend", and it's not them.
IT'S DEVASTATING
I'm telling you, there is nothing, absolutely NOTHING more lethal and damaging than what
you verbalize. If what comes out of your mouth isn't uplifting, encouraging or
positive, DON'T SAY ANYTHING at all. Just smile, wave, be pleasant, and simply enjoy each
other's company. Relish in the now and in the moment. Find peace with that. Wishing for
different partners doesn't do anyone any bit of good.
Keep your "fix" secrets to yourself. You and everyone else around you will sleep better
at night. I get my dance fix with many different dancers. It's a different flavor fix
every time. Learn to appreciate each person you dance with, for their own style and
feeling. You'll have a much better time dancing and live a much happier life if you do.
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